Divorce rate is continually rising: a report of Chinese Academy of Social Sciences pointed out that the divorce rate of Beijingin 2002 was 50.90% with 76,136 pairs got married and 38,756 pairs divorced. Inrecent years, the divorce rate of U.S.always kept above 50%; the Western Europe countries all kept about 40%; Republic of Korea,Japan, Hong Kong and Taiwan all kept about 40%; Thailand was 60%. Then, how about the divorce rate of India? In the Bangalore, the silicon valley of India, Dutta, a female soft ware engineer, said among her eighteen classmates there were five still unmarried,and in the rest thirteen married students, eight had divorced. “We see each other sometimes, and we think that it is fine to be alone.”
What is wrong with family?
If one member ofa family has long-term illness or congenital disability or dies on the vine,all family members especially parents, sons, daughters and spouse will fall into sorrow and misfortune for their whole life. Many people are pressed almost out of breath by funeral and supporting their parents; many parents are tortured by the academic career of children, work, marriage and career; many people forfeit their independent personality and freedom after they get married. Marriage is just like a door, and once you step into it, this means that you have shut all the other doors; if your partner is eccentric in character, disturbed in mind, defective in physiology or ugly in soul, you can do nothing but to endure; all husbands are afraid that their wives cheat on them,similarly all wives are afraid that their husbands cheat on them too; as a result, all the married men and women will live in fear for their whole life in miserable and they all hope their partners are the flashlights which can only lighten himself or herself. The primary cause for the violence alternation of different dynasties lies in the “family first”: if one receives a high positionin the government, all his relatives and followers will get promotion after him; otherwise, if one commits a crime, the whole clan of him will be implicated; under the sky, all the territory belongs to the king; everyone including ministers and officials are all the servants of the king. There is acommon phenomenon: if one wants to fish for benefits, one needs to break through the family members of prime minister, minister, stadholder and countymagistrate, especially their spouse; in this way, these officials will secretly work for you and offer you with the power and benefits of their families in the scope of their authorities. Why did the malfeasants in different ages take place one after another? Why were they being endless greedy? Its primary causeis that they attach too much importance on their families, want to make their ancestors illustrious and want to establish an eternal lasting enterprise for their descendants. Without family, all these drawbacks will disappear automatically.
Lifechanyuan Era
Family willgradually disappear; wedding will not exist and marriage certificate willcompletely become history; the title of husband and wife will become a backwardsign sealed in the history museum; bisexual love can conduct freely out ofwillingness. Everyone has work to do; there will be limit on individual wealth,once above it the wealth will automatically belong to all human beings; naturalresources including land will belong to all people; persons will not own anyprivate land or house property; the countries, political parties and religionsetc. will all disappear. Human services will be adjusted, arranged and managedby global government; personnel can transfer around the world, and every threeyears people may have a chance to change their working and living environments;as a result, everyone may have about twenty opportunities to live and work in different environments, which means you work in Beijing for this three years,and you may work in Tokyo for next three years and New York next three yearsand then Vancouver, London, Berlin and Johannesburg etc.; in this way everyonehas opportunity to enjoy the beautiful scenery on the earth. With the disappearance of the family and housing and work are arranged unitarily by the global government, so the conventional moving problems are completely avoided;what you need to do but get on car with your simple luggage. The issues of oldaged support, raising children and education, funeral will be arrangedunitarily by society, so do the people without the labor capacity. The concept of father will disappear, and no one know who his father is; after weaning, thebabies are picked up by special agency until they are sensible; and they willnot live together with their mothers. All family names will be cancelled, andthe name of everyone will be ##Celestial.
Family will gradually disappear
The divorce ratewill rise continually, and people will gradually prefer to live freely;marrying used to be regarded as a happy event, and from now on it will beregarded as a tragedy for human life; people will gradually accept the value ofLifechanyuan; even for the un-divorced man and wife, they will gradually changetheir marriage idea, and gradually regard the opposite side as a friend and apartner instead of possessing and monopolizing him or her.
Family is themain root leading to the pains of life. As long as the family exists, human cannever enter into the new era filled with freedom and happiness.
Lifechanyuan era is bound to come!
October 2, 2006
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